Clarity

insight

EmpOwerment

Support for reclaiming your clarity, choice, and agency after the highs and lows of high control.

One-on-One

Support

One-on-one, client centered, trauma-informed, somatic Internal Family Systems™ and Brainspotting in person in the San Francisco Bay Area and online sessions for support.

Assisting survivors in reclaiming parts of themselves not welcomed in high control abuse.

Support for

Supporters

Providing guidance for those who support survivors of coercive control. These sessions offer education, grounding, and practical tools to navigate complex dynamics without replicating harm.

Whether it is holding space for a loved one or in a professional role,  LO can support you to stay regulated, informed, and effective— while honoring the survivor’s agency and autonomy.

SuppOrt fOR PROfessiOnals & advOcates

Tailored support for professionals serving survivors and whistleblowers of coercive control:

  • Therapists & Counselors
  • Social Workers
  • Coaches & Mentors
  • Legal Professionals
  • Healthcare Providers
  • Educators & School Counselors
  • Religious & Spiritual Leaders
  • Domestic Violence & Crisis Advocates
  • HR Professionals & Workplace Advocates
  • Journalists & Content Creators


welCOming

all PeoPle

& all PaRts


LO welcomes clients of all identities, backgrounds, and experiences

with respect, inclusivity, and compassion.


LO is a queer, white woman from the San Francisco Bay Area,

and recognizes that each person’s journey is intersectional unique. 

LO is committed to listening, learning, and tailoring support to meet your needs.


If  High Control LOs isn’t the right fit,  LO will gladly help connect you with other resources or referrals.

Areas of Focus

LO's lived and professional experience guides her focus in offering grounded, compassionate, and informed support:

  • Coercive control & narcissistic abuse across contexts

e.g. families, cults, groups, domestic abuse, childhood abuse, professional, academia, etc.

  • Coerced sexual violence, exploitation, & abuse

e.g. sex trafficking, childhood sexual abuse and material, incest, rape, sexual assault

  • Sex workers, creatives, performers, & artists
  • Betrayal trauma & traumatic bonding
  • Disassociation

e.g. Dissociative Identity Disorder, Other Unspecified Dissociative Disorders

  • Neurodivergence

e.g. ADHD, autism, dyslexia, complex-post traumatic disorder, sensory processing disorder

  • Alternative relationships structures

e.g. polyamorous and ethical non-monogamy 

  • Sexuality, Kink, & BDSM
  • LGBTQIA+
  • Chronic illness, somatization, & dysautonomia